Therapist for Young Adult

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  • Hi - I am looking for a therapist for my child (18yrs) who is suffering from depression and anxiety. Can anyone recommend a therapist who can conduct online/virtual sessions and specializes in DBT? My child is a freshman in an out-of-state college but feels more comfortable having a therapist who is in the Bay Area. Thanks!

    My teen sees Brianna Aitkenhead. She used to be at DBT Center of Marin. She is very knowledgeable and kind. She is physically located in Marin but does virtual appointments. I am not sure if she has any openings but if not she may be able to make other recommendations. 

    I'm sorry your son is suffering. I've researched the same for my young-adult child who attends college out-of-state. Therapists are licensed by state, and the patient/client must be physically present in the state that the therapists is licensed to practice in during the treatment sessions. If your child works with a therapist located in the Bay Area, the therapist will also need to be licensed in the state where your child attends college. Also, full DBT is a highly structured therapeutic program that has individual and group components (as well as 24/7 phone support for the client and team support for the care provider) over a six-month to one-year time frame. It is the gold standard for certain conditions, and clients are thoroughly screened before entering a DBT program. Some DBT therapists will treat clients individually from a DBT perspective, but that is not the same as DBT treatment. The term "DBT" is being used a lot in ways not intended by the creator of the treatment. Carefully vet the credentials of any therapist that says they provide DBT. Here is a link to the training organization affiliated with Marsha Linehan, the creator of DBT.

    I've heard that changes may be coming to the way therapists can be licensed so that they can provide services to clients in a wider geographical range, but no specifics yet.

    Because of therapist licensing requirements, you may have a hard time finding a Bay Area based therapist willing to treat a client who is out of state. 

    Although your child might prefer a Bay Area therapist, the clinician in that state must legally have a reciprocal agreement with the licensing boards in both states.  That said, I'm certain there is a website for DBT that they might use to locate a group or clinician in that state.  Psychology Today might also list therapists who have reciprocity in those two states as well.  Good luck!

    You didn't mention their gender but if your child is female - I can highly recommend Allison Altman https://annaglezermd.com/our-clinicians. I have worked with a number of clinicians at  Women's Wellness Psychiatry including taking Allison's online DBT classes and they have been extremely helpful.  Allison has a really good approach - she simultaneously encourages growth/change and is highly empathetic to the struggle.

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  • Thanks for any suggestions for a good therapist to work with a wonderful young woman who's needing help socializing and building friendships in her remote work world.  She's naturally shy and has been working remotely since Covid changed the work world in March 2020.  She likes her job but it's 95% remote and she's gotten very isolated socially.  She's active, works out, always doing something but on her own.  She's tried meetups, volunteering, etc. -- but needs more help to stick with it and develop some friendships.  Thanks for thoughts of a therapist who can work with her to take these steps and also understand that this new remote work world requires new ways to make good friends.  Many of us made good friends through our work worlds, I did, and built social networks.  It also helps to be around people who are thinking bigger, involved, figuring out their futures.  Thx much...

    If she is open to therapy via video call, I highly recommend https://www.akhilakolesar.com/ - she is wonderfully empathetic and you really feel like she is on your side and wants to help you to have the best life you can have.

  • I am trying to help my 20 year old find a therapist who is currently available for IN PERSON sessions. My child is hoping to find someone who is something of a pragmatic generalist - specialties in anxiety and general coaching toward happiness/optimism would be good, but hoping to avoid a practice whose main focus is something more specific such as trauma, identity issues, reparenting, hard core CBT, or anything else very specific. If you have a recommendation, we'd love to hear it!  Thanks.

    Try Halle Brown. She is my therapist and I have been very happy with her. She sees clients in person in her Albany office. (314) 999-4379

  • I'm wondering if anyone can recommend a therapist that fulfills the following criteria:  -- Located in Albany, Kensington, El Cerrito, Berkeley, or possibly Rockridge or Piedmont. -- Offering in-person sessions. -- Experienced in helping intelligent, non-substance-abusing, joyless young adults find purpose, a little optimism, and the best way forward in life. -- Not too "alternative" or emotionally touchy-feeling in approach; my child is a cynic. -- Helpful with severe social anxiety but willing to take things slowly (not just pure, efficient cognitive behavioral therapy). My 20-year-old was socially anxious and withdrawn before the pandemic, got worse during quarantine, and now could really use a jump-start toward future happiness. I'm thinking maybe something in between therapy and life-coaching -- but maybe that's just what therapy is? All suggestions appreciated!

    Bri Byrne: Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist #77517

    She is in Lafayette, and she is excellent and has been working with my teen kid for this issue too. She has helped my teen get through depression without medication. It takes some time, but she offers very compassionate and intelligent guidance and advice. She is also very open to speaking with the parents about progress and even some guidance at home but will not do family therapy so that the teen client keeps the trust that she is exclusively there for them. I really credit her for helping my teen to see herself and her place in this world from a positive perspective. 

    My teenager is seeing Ananda Patterson, MA, psychological associate, in Albany, and really likes her. She is under supervision of Dr. Ellen Balis and working toward her PhD. She was highly recommended by my kid’s previous therapist (who is fantastic), Dr. Adam Moss. (He didn’t have any after school hours available, so my kid wanted to see someone else). It’s been a good fit for my trans kid as Ananda is particularly in tune with LGBTQ+ adolescents.

    We really like Dr Frank Davis in Berkeley. He help our teen/ young son and really support our family. You always have to try because it is difficult to find the right fit, but Dr Davis is young, experience and not your typical doctor, that really help my son to connect with him. 

    Good luck!

  • Seeking a therapist to help my son, as I have not found one at Kaiser that he’s comfortable with.  Recently he has been showing angry outbursts that alarm me, He is on medication through Kaiser and is good to his grandparents, has a part time job and is in school, but at times his thinking is way off and that gets him into trouble. He recently lost three friends because of his behavior. He needs guidance and I’m hoping I can find someone soon, as I’m very worried. 

    I’m sorry. Maybe you can ask his kaiser psychiatrist if he has one, for a referral outside of kaiser.  I know the wright institute in Berkeley has various mental health clinics staffed mostly by graduate students but with supervision. So I think it may be more affordable than private. 

  • My young adult daughter (19) is looking for a therapist who lives a cruelty-free lifestyle.  I know that other therapists might be empathic and understanding about animals/sensitivity, but we really need someone who is vegan/living a cruelty-free lifestyle.

    If they happen to be on the Magellan provider list, that's a huge bonus!!!

    thank you!

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Therapist for someone in late 20's

Dec 2011

I am need of a good therapist. I am in my late 20's and kinda fit into the disaffected ''youth'' category. I need to see someone that ''gets'' me. Does anyone have good experiences with a therapist in the area (El Cerrito/Albany/Richmond/Berkeley) Any recs would be highly appreciated! Thank you!! Grateful


I recommend Marenka Cerny, MFT. Marenka is located in south Berkeley, easy to reach by public transportation or car. See her website at www.somatic- psychotherapy.org I can't say enough good things about this woman as she has studied and worked in clinics 7 years, and has an inherent understanding of teenage youths and young adults. She is kind, appreciative, and hard working and will thoroughly consider your needs throughout your sessions. I know first hand of her work with two people in our family and I have to say that she is great on setting boundaries and communicating to others on how to focus on their needs and goals, and work within their personal limitations. a10


I would recommend Yvonne Mansell, (510) 528-9551. She also has a website so you can get a sense of her that way as well. She is warm and insightful and quite in touch with the needs of young women. Good luck, Marie H


Katie Jennette, MFT has a lot of experience working with young adults and is wonderful. She's in south Berkeley: (510) 859-7340. S. B.


You should call Emily Johnson, she's a great therapist. She's located in Rockridge, which hopefully isn't too far for you. Emily is really bright, engaged, and has a good sense of humor, which is a nice asset in a therapist. She's a really open-minded listener and can really help you sort out what you want and feel. Her number is 510-601-0734. anonymous