Teen Halloween Activities
My son is now a freshman in high school and it just occurred to me that with all the concurrent changes, so too will Halloween change. What do teens in Berkeley do for Halloween? Are there any activities for that age group? Has anything worked in your household when your child has outgrown (or almost outgrown) trick or treating? Our home is too small to host a get together of his friends, unfortunately.
Sep 11, 2024
Parent Replies
The City of Berkeley Parks and Rec transforms the Grove Park center into kind of a walk-through haunted house on Halloween. It’s free or nearly free and is aimed at tweens/teens.
Also, the City does a Halloween skate jam at the skate park, if your kid skateboards. Probably also free or very low-cost.
As an adult, I find walking around Russell Street to be fun people-watching on Halloween. Maybe a teen would feel like it’s so close to trick or treating, though.
We live outside Berkeley, so I can’t offer suggestions on what options might be available there, I do want to provide a general suggestion. Our teen (now a junior) trick or treated as a freshman and sophomore, in costume and with a friend, and had a great time. We do live in a city, and specifically in a neighborhood, that goes all out for Halloween (residents of other cities drive here to safely trick-or-treat) so that may be different and play into whether your teen feels they want (or don’t) to go out. I happen to be of the mind of “let kids be kids as long as possible “, so was delighted, and helped with costume parts when I could, when he opted to dress up. I hope your kid has fun, whatever they do.
As teens in Albany, my kids tended to gather in a group of 3-6 friends at one of their homes, in costume (often coordinated among the group, like the year my son and a handful of his high school friends, all boys, dressed as different Disney princesses), and they would go out trick-or-treating for a relatively short time in between playing games and watching videos together. Some teens do have more elaborate parties, but for mine it was always just a few friends hanging out together, organized amongst themselves.
I love teenage trick-or-treaters, personally...often their costumes are very creative (even if I don't recognize the characters they're dressed as), and I rely on them to reduce my candy supply to a reasonable amount of leftovers toward the end of the evening!
Teens do trick or treat in Berkeley, mine did!
While giving out candy, I can say I appreciate anyone who wears a costume, and some of the teens are pretty creative. I have also enjoyed some UC Berkeley Students — most fun is when there’s a group in costume giving their international student friend their first Halloween. (But I digress). For teens, strategy and timing is everything. I think the sweet spot is 7-9 pm. Some houses in the more popular areas tend to run out of candy by 8pm, But when I lived on a less popular trick or treat street, I had so few trick or treaters that when some teens came along at 8:45 I gave them quite the generous amount, haha it was fun for both of us. And teens can cover a lot of ground quickly and “bat cleanup “ so to speak. I would say, please still remind them of the basic etiquette: Assume you are invisible while crossing streets, wear a costume or at least show you tried with whatever last minute household items you had on hand, say trick or treat and thank you, when presented with a bowl, only take one unless the giver tells you to take more (don’t ask how many, it just makes us feel bad if we’re on a fixed budget or live on a popular block where it’s too expensive to give out multiples). Don’t litter, and look for places with decorations, lights or other signs of participation.
Aside from trick or treating, I will be forever grateful to some very memorable teens who channeled their creativity into a fun theatrical experience on their front yard, complete with a human zombie and great sound effects when my kid was a little trick or treater. Those teens were pretty awesome, made some fun memories for the younger ones + parents.