Support for toddler with aggressive behavior
Our two year-old has been exhibiting frequent aggressive behavior towards other children (hitting, pinching, hair pulling, biting) beyond what is normal for children his age. We are seeking recommendations for services (OT, social worker, etc) that other parents have found useful for kids in this situation. Our pediatrician has evaluated him and does not think he has a developmental delay, and he is generally a happy and outgoing kid when around adults. We are at a loss and believe he’d benefit from extra support. Thank you!
Nov 12, 2024
Parent Replies
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I highly recommend the 1, 2, 3 Magic method to modify undesirable behavior. My daughter was doing some of these things at 2 years old, as well as snatching toys from other kids. We used 1, 2, 3 Magic to establish clear boundaries and consistent (but gentle) consequences. Within weeks, her behavior was 70% improved. At 3.5 years, she's a delight. She listens to instructions and limits and knows what to expect from us.
You can use this method in combination with other resources, such as OT and therapy.