ISO couples therapist

We are looking for a therapist for us. I would appreciate recommendations. 

Ideally, 

• located in Rockridge, Piedmont, Temescal, Lakeshore/Grand Lake are
• Open to and effective in both in person and remote sessions
•  Exceptional listener
• Intelligent, eloquent, and intellectual but also warm and empathetic 

• Trained in EFT
  
  We need help with communication, identify and change unhealthy patterns, disagreements and resentment surrounding parenting and household management, and process trauma.