Help for husband's pre-travel anxiety
My husband becomes very anxious about upcoming air travel - both for work and leisure. He is not scared of actually flying, but all the logistics around it - what if he forgets to pack something, traffic on the way to the airport, no overhead bin space, delayed or cancelled flights, rude airport workers, etc. In the couple days before having to fly, he will work himself up so much that he actually starts feeling sick. He has never had a traumatic event while flying and he knows his anxiety is somewhat irrational. He loves going on road trips and does not feel this amount of stress. Is there any type of therapy that could help ease his anxiety around this? Thanks!
Mar 5, 2023
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My son had panic attacks around flying for 10 years and immediate and full resolution after doing a day clinic at the SFO fear of flying clinic and going through the book SOAR (Soar: The Breakthrough Treatment For Fear Of Flying by Tom Bunn). the book is really focused on fear of flying/ airplane but they also have an excellent therapy (self guided) to tie each event of going to airport, etc with something that releases oxytocin and I imagine that may help with the type of anxiety that you are describing around the other events.
I have anxiety around pre-trip logistics too. I'm not afraid of the actual flying, but I get so agitated in the day or two before the trip that I am very unpleasant to be around. In the last few years I've been on a number of 2-week trips and a couple of 4-week trips so I have a lot of practice. What I do to calm myself down:
I hope this helps!
Hi! A close friend of mine was in a very similar boat for most of his life. He started EMDR therapy a couple of years ago and has been able to peacefully and happily embark on many more travels with his family! He’s been to Europe twice this year and said the EMDR has made an incredible difference for him. I don’t have first-hand experience myself but wanted to share this anecdote when I saw your post.