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Son's allergies flare up when he comes home from college
Dec 2014
When my son returns from college, he has a terrible allergic reaction at home---constant sneezing, red eyes, stuffed sinuses, runny nose, and feels terrible. In anticipation, we removed his throw rug and intensively dusted and vacuumed his room (but not the rest of the house) right before he arrived for Thanksgiving but it did not help. (Perhaps we were remiss about not vacuuming the rest of the house---our dog sheds a lot). He was not allergic to our previous dogs and our new one does shed quite a bit. He has always had an allergic reaction to our basement level room where he and his friends hang out and I think that there is mold there. What should we do? Get him a new mattress and bedding? Some kind of air purifier? What about the rest of the house? He hates it that he has to use nose spray and benadryl when he's here. Plus it all brought on his asthma. HELP PLEASE! He'll be back in 3 weeks and I don't want him to feel he gets sick when he's here. (He's in Seattle for school and seems to also have allergies there as well but it gets worse here). Is he allergic to our house?
thank you in advance. worried mama
One thought: perhaps by cleaning/dusting *right* before he arrives, you're actually raising dust in his room? I know that I typically suffer allergies for at least a day after I clean house. Might be worth a try doing the dusting a couple days before he arrives to give any raised dust time to settle. By the way, I always get allergies at my mother's home (where I grew up), and have resigned myself to being on benadryl/clariton while there. It's a bummer, but manageable. --allergic to dust
My son and I have the exact same problem. Neither of us have allergies, but our noes run non-stop, constant sneezing, red eyes it's terrible and it can last for hours. We've both had this problem form years and could never figure it out. Your post had just given me a clue as to what the problem is. I think we can help each other out. I don't think it's the mold. Is it wore indoors? Is he more or less OK in the morning and gets worse during the day? Does it come and go? Like nose running and constant sneezing for say an hour and then it stops, only to return suddenly in full force a short time latter? This is exactly what happens for us. The worst part is the sneezing and constant flow of liquid from our noses. I need to know do you live in Berkeley? (Or Albany, North Oakland? or a city that boarders Berkeley?) It hit us this Thanksgiving too. If it's the same for you son, you just made me realize what it is, It's not your house or something in it, it's the city. It's got to be a tree or shrub that's planted all over the city of Berkeley. I realize this never happens in San Francisco or Contra Costa County only in Berkeley. With the warm weather I've noticed plants already blooming. You have me convinced it's something in the city. I think we may have just solved each others problem. Thank you. ANON
Sounds like your son has never been tested for allergies. That would actually be my first step to find out what exactly he is allergic to, i.e. get him to a doctor for an allergy test. Throwing out lots of things without that information is not helpful. Once you know what allergens he actually needs to avoid, you can start removing them from your house.
Also, I find that Loratadine helps my allergies as well or better than Benadryl with a lot less side effects. Once he gets tested, he should ask the doctor for recommendations for medication (there are some prescription-only ones) fellow allergy sufferer
I suspect it's the dog, not the house. (It's always possible that there are dust mites and the like too, but as a dog person who is also allergic to dogs and dust mites and everything in between--new dogs, and even my own dog when I've been away from him, cause exactly the reaction you're describing.) First, your son can definitely be allergic to your new dog even if he wasn't allergic to your old dogs. However, even if you still had your old dogs, he might well be reacting to them simply because he's been away from them. I don't think changing out the mattress will help (though you never know--it could be exacerbating the problem). If you want to do an experiment, try having a friend keep the dog for the first week and do a thorough vacuum/clean before your son arrives. See how it goes, and bring the dog back the second week. If things go to pieces then, you'll know for sure. Good luck! Been there!
My brother has the same problem coming home, which also coincided with the arrival of a new dog that sheds a ton. My parents have started putting the dogs in a kennel the day before he comes home, as well as vacuuming intensively. That has seemed to help a great deal. He still has to take Benadryl, but he's not having major allergy/asthma reactions any more. Bekki
This is extreme, but my whole family developed allergies when we were doing work at our house. What was particularly disturbing was my toddler son was coughing with a wheeze and was prescribed Albuterol by the doctor. He also was taking Claritin for itchy eyes and runny nose. We moved out of the house so they could finish up the major work and we seemed to drag the dust, dirt, etc. with us and all had allergies at the new place! We looked into air purifiers and ended up getting this machine: http://www.firstplacesupply.com/abatement-technologies-portable-air-scrubber- pred600/?gclid=CJzt_I7Hr8ICFQ4Q7Aod0HkARA It wasn't cheap, but the cost of renting it was comparable to buying so we just went and bought it. Also we figured the cost was worth it so my son wouldn't be on an inhaler. Since running it in the house, we're all allergy and medicine free. Hope this helps! Allergy-free
feel as if I could have written the same post, but for my husband. His severe allergies first started when we were living back east and moved into a new apartment. We did allergy testing and found he is allergic to almost everything. Instead of allergy shots, we tried the following that might work for you: wash all bedding (pillows too if possible) frequently (at least 1x per week) at 130F or hotter to kill dust mites, buy allergy covers for mattress and pillows, wool pillows are dust mite resistant (don't wash those!!), reduce humidity, buy good filters and run your hvac fan, vacuum carpets and rugs at least weekly, keep pets out of bedroom. We had it under control, moved to the Bay Area and now his indoor allergies are flaring up again. He travels frequently, so he takes a Claritin 12hrs before coming home from a work trip which seems to help a lot, in addition to the above measures. Am interested to hear what others suggest, and totally feel your pain. So hard to watch a loved one suffer in their own home! Liz
I have a high-school age daughter who has recently developed very similar allergy problems. First, her doctor recommended that she get blood tests to identify her allergies---she tested positive for both dust mites and pet dander. Next, we purchased mattress and pillow covers that are impervious to dust mites and pet dander...get the tightest possible weave. Several companies sell these online. We also started using a HEPA air filter in her bedroom. This all helped some, but she still has noticeable symptoms in the morning. A friend recently recommended that we purchase a black light, which can illuminate any pet urine spots in your home for more thorough cleaning (cat urine also triggers her allergic reactions), so that's next on our list. I'm hopeful that we're slowly getting a handle on all this....Best wishes, Mom of allergic teenager
My DH is also allergic to his childhood home. His mother takes this as a personal affront. Sigh. It is nice that you are interested in solving the problem rather than placing blame and guilt! For my DH, we think it is the local home dust that he reacts to. He suffers and we keep visits short and try to spend most days out adventuring rather than staying in the house. At our own home he usually gets bothered just after cleaning because everything is stirred up, so you might do better to clean 3-5 days before he returns rather than ''just before'' so that the particulates that are sent airborne have a chance to settle. My DH also stays off the floor at homes with dogs and otherwise avoids interaction with them and washes his hands frequently so he doesn't accidently put dander near his nose/eyes. good luck!
I would suggest that you dust and vacuum and the whole house, and then do it again. Maybe it is the dog. But maybe it is something else. Another idea is to make sure that you are using non-toxic cleaners like Bonne Amie and vinegar. Also, use fragrance-free detergents and get all fragrances out of the house. If you want to try an air cleaner, this company makes good ones. http://www.foustco.com/ Good Luck! Anon
Hi.
I hope you can get an appointment a little sooner. This sounds very similar to the environmental allergies our kiddo experienced. Knowing the trigger is a big help (this can come from the allergy test. Until the nightly flare ups minimized, I kept a journal with date/conditiona/reactions. Sometimes a pattern will emerge (seasonal/activity driven/indoor vs. outdoor/certain buildings). Initially I tried to figure it out day-to-day... but then realized it was better to log observations, and hand my book to the allergist to observe meaningful trends.
Our kid who had multiple environmental allergies including dust and some pollens and dogs and cats. It was very similar -flare ups at night, made sleeping a challenge.
Things that helped: dust mite covers on all bedding, latex mattress with dust cover, some special comforter (was it silk? I got it at costco); taking a bath or shower before bedtime every night; humidifier; air filter (hepa), completely unscented "free" detergents for all laundry, unscented "free" soaps for hand/bath/shampoo.
I used to ask the folks at Pharamaca on Solano for things to try -- most allergy-specific items are related... anti-inflammatory herbs in tea or tinctures. One of them may be helpful. We tried them all -- and some did help. They always suggest probiotics, which seemed helpful for our fam. Acupuncture helped my kiddo when he was little, not so much now.
i hope something in here is of use. The flare ups at night are so common. I do think there is a trigger which is just building up by the end of every day. For our kid, there was no one trigger, it was a variety of things that were cumulative -- this is why we got rid of fragrance and additives in all soaps and tried to do the nighty bath and humidifier in room to make them comfortable before bed.
Look into dust mites. During college I had horrible allergies and got tested and reacted very badly to dust mites. Vacuum the mattress try a new pillow? I now have a latex mattress because I was told it is better for allergies.
If you don’t already have a great air purifier in her room, get one asap! I have environmental allergies which often barely bother me during the day, but keep me up at night with cold-like symptoms if I don’t have an air purifier in the room. The air purifier solves my problem 100%.
Just a couple ideas - laundry detergent? Our pediatric dermatologist approved of either the Kirkland liquid dye/fragrance free (if you shop at Costco) or All Free & Clear. I know whatever you’re using is also on her clothes, but it’s different when you’re laying in bedsheets and blankets with your head on a pillow. Also no dryer sheets, ever ever. Does she have a bunch of stuffed animals on her bed? Those are also something to remove, at least at first, as you’re trying to figure out what’s causing the allergies. Glad you got the mattress and box spring covered - give that some time. Since it’s bedtime, can you try some full-on Benadryl, just to see if it brings her some relief? If it makes her sleepy, it’s ok!
Hi - Sorry she's suffering like that; I have a daughter with terrible allergies we've spent years controlling. Even your pediatrician can order an allergy panel. It's super fast from a blood draw. Berkeley Pediatrics just had a new one done for us and we had results in 5 days. There are many ones you can order online these days too!
For sure a good hepa filter makes a huge difference. Costco has a Winx that is very affordable and does well. I use a Molecule in my room, and it's made a huge difference. It's often dust mites, and they live in all soft stuff like bedding, carpet, and stuffed animals. Remove as many of those from her bedroom as possible as a test for a few weeks and see if you notice a difference.
2 other things we are doing that really help: KVP is a supplement for the gut lining that helps reduce histamine, and we've noticed a big difference. There are others like this - I think Pharmica carrier DHist which is working the same way. Also, Halotherapy (dry salt therapy) is where you breathe dry salt for 10 minutes. It has an immediate effect and relief. There's an at-home product you can order called Fend that is working similarly and we do dry salt therapy at the Brain Spa in Albany.
Good luck!
It’s so hard to give advice before your daughter sees an Allergist! If it is while she is sleeping and maybe dust mites, the comforter she uses is really important. We got ours from Mission Allergy at the rec of our Dr., which wasn’t cheap BUT it’s lasted forever and been worth every cent. Also stuffed animals harbor a lot of dust. We got rid of most and ran the important ones through the wash and continue to do so regularly. And investing in a quality air purifier makes all the difference too. Our son was diagnosed with a host of allergies fairly young (including dust mites) and those 3 things made a big difference for us. Good luck!
Do you have a gas stove, especially an old one? No idea if this is what’s going on, but we had a super old gas stove (and super old hood) that did not have any visible/noticeable problems and I read this that gas can sometimes be problematic health wise. Didn’t think much of it but my husband used to suffer from constant year round sneezing/congestion, and when we recently redid our kitchen and got a new stove (also gas but much newer and with a powerful hood) his issues instantly disappeared.
Hello! I learned earlier this year from my son's (he's 4) allergist he is allergic to nearly all environmental samples on the test panel. He now takes children's Zyrtec (we buy at Costco, called children's allertec) nightly. While you wait to see the allergist you could also get an encasement for the duvet too, keep air filters running, and if you have carpet or rugs, to vacuum 1-2x per week. Showering/bathing daily could also help remove allergens. Good luck! I hope the root cause has an easy solution for your little one.
Sorry to hear. I have very sensitive adult children who are sensitive to their environment. What we’ve learned—eliminate surfaces that can gather dust particularly in bedroom (rugs, carpeting, rough or unfinished walls). Use a good air purifier in that room.
(Coway excellent) Sheets should be untreated cotton and washed often with eco-friendly UNSCENTED laundry detergent. Do not use dryer sheets. Use wool balls to “soften” laundry in dryer. Buy mattress and pillow covers specifically for people w allergies. (Online stores) Buy a new hypo-allergenic pillow. (No down or feathers).
As others have suggested, she may be allergist to dust mites. She may also be allergic to something in her room such as feathers in the comforter.
Stop using eucalyptus. It is toxic.
Molds are more active at night. An air cleaner might help. It may also help to close the windows at night.
You mention that you have pets. Your daughter could be allergic to them, and still not react enough during the day to trigger a reaction. After a lifetime of cat ownership, I started suspecting that I am allergic to cats. I am fine during the day, but my nose is stuffy at night, and recently I've started waking up coughing, feeling like my chest is tight. We recently got a new mattress, new pillows, mite proof protectors, the whole gamut, so it's probably not dust mites (at least not just dust mites). So I went and washed all my bedding, vacuumed really well, ran the air purifiers all day, and kept the cats out of the bedroom. I am sleeping much better. It's not 100% better, so I probably have to see a doctor, but it feels so good not to wheeze at night. Try making your daughter's bedroom an allergen free room. No pets, no plants, no essential oils (!!!!), and keep the air purifier running, change into clean pet-free pajamas before bed. See if that helps. Good luck with your allergist visit!
The community's responses are all on point. The eucalyptus is toxic, as it does a quick fix then makes things worse. Yes, the scent free and eco-friendly (Seventh Generation Free and Clear) laundry of the bedding is so important, the 100% cotton bedding, the air purifying and dust control and keeping an open window are all excellent ideas. If the bed is a problem, remove the bed from the room and try a clean air mattress for a week or so and see if that helps. Your goal is to make the bedroom a clean room, as it were. Does your little one sleep better in other rooms? As for relief and building your child's immune system, integrative and alternative care of all sorts can help. My Naturopath recommends a pediatric acupuncturist, Janet Thomson of Janet Thomson Acupuncture and Herbal Medicine (415-652-4096) and my daughter, with her environmental allergies similar to your child's, has gotten relief from acupuncture, chiropractic, osteopathy and other such support care. This is a road of trial and error, stay positive!
I am so sorry to hear. My child is allergic to so many known and unknown things. Allergy does seem to get worse and at bedtime. Through trial and error, we learned that our child reacts to tide brand detergent, although it’s free and clear. 7th generation unscented detergent is tolerated well, and we do double rinse for bedding. (I know it’s bad for the drought but …) we use an air purifier at night use daily histamine. Zyrtec is the one that works best for us but it’s again trial and error. We also got rid of down and wool material and switched to synthetic. It turns out child is allergic to wool! We thought it was dust but panel test show child is not allergic to dust mites. We do notice that it’s worse during fire /smoke season and when it’s raining. Your pediatrician should be able to order allergy test and get you on a wait list for a full panel test. We are with Kaiser and have been waiting for a test for several months. My heart goes out to you. It’s so hard to see our little ones suffer.