Saint Mary's vs. Saint Joseph's vs. Holy Names

My daughter is in 8th grade and is considering Saint Mary's, Saint Joseph's, and Holy Names for high school. She has attended the shadow day for each school and has liked different things about each. If you are a current parent at one of these schools can you share your experience? Pros? Cons? How would you rate academic rigor, student support, social climate, and overall happiness of students and staff?