Donating used goods to help women and kids

I have some miscellaneous items I’d like to donate to help women and children in need, refugees starting over in the U.S., victims of domestic violence, or other folks facing similar difficulties.  In the past I’ve donated to Bananas, since they often accept items that other places don’t, but I thought I’d check and see if there are other places that could use some random items. Some of the things I have:

Used but in good condition: toys, kid’s and women’s clothing, a stroller, Ergo carrier. 

Unused items: disposable diapers, random toiletries like contact lens cases and sample sized mouthwash and floss packets.

In the next 6 months I’ll be getting rid of some larger items, like a toddler bed, so it would be great to find someplace I could donate to periodically.

I'm also thinking of giving a small cash donation this holiday season, and having my kids pick out a few gifts (like new toys or pj’s) that we can donate.  My income is modest so I can’t make large or regular financial donations, but I’d like to do something to help, and get my kids thinking about helping others too. Someplace in North Oakland would be ideal, Berkeley/Albany/El Cerrito/Richmond OK too.  

Thank you BPN for your suggestions!