Psychiatrist for 11 year old with ADHD and meltdowns
Hello BPN Family,
We seek a psychiatrist for our 11-year-old with ADHD and social issues. Our child tends to bottle up what is bothering them and then has severe meltdowns at home as a result. Most of the meltdowns are because of social issues. We constantly communicate with their teachers, so the anxiety is not related to typical ADHD-related problems like time management or stress over school assignments. As we enter the teen years, we want to cover all our bases. We prefer talk therapy with strategies over art therapy.
Jan 5, 2022
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My daughter is 8, almost 9 and struggling with anxiety, depression, anger, showing the beginning signs of self harm.
At school, she does very well. It is at home when she shows how she feels, has melt downs, says troubling things. For several years I felt she needed a therapist, though her father was resistant. We are separated.
Recently, he agreed, after emphasizing her pediatrician thought it was a good idea.
Have called so many numbers, and no luck yet.
Please advise
Best,
M
That sounds like a lot to handle. The fact that you’re seeking answers is amazing and courageous.
If you discuss this with their pediatrician, the doctor can make a referral. You might also want to discuss a neuropsych evaluation with the pediatrician— They can make that referral as well.
Neuropsych evaluation is not inexpensive, so you may have to press for it to get insurance to cover it. But having a formal evaluation can be really helpful as you move forward. It’s also an excellent tool to force the schools to accommodate your child’s unique needs.
you’re doing an amazing job! Your child is very lucky to have you as their advocate!!
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