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  • I have scheduled my college age daughter's wisdom teeth extraction for late summer. In the past 5 years (starting at age 16) she has had 4 surgeries (3 for ACL reconstruction, and 1 for sinus) and every time she has had Oxycontin. While there has been no sign of her not taking them as directed or abuse, I am very concerned about her using them.  She has a very low pain tolerance and feels that she "needs" these meds for post operative pain. I recently read a WaPo article which said that even one course of opiates used for wisdom teeth extraction could result in abuse or addiction and that studies showed that tylenol and advil were more effective in reducing dental pain. So I called the oral surgeon office ahead of her appointment to voice my concern and asked if they might make the argument to her when we came in about using the analgesics instead of narcotics. The person I spoke to said their office had seen the same article, and while their office still regularly prescribed the narcotics, there were some oral surgeons that wouldn't.  They said would make a note in her file. 

    During the appointment they asked her about narcotics and she said that Oxy worked for her.  So I brought up the info in the article and everyone listened, and while my daughter said she might be willing to try just the analgesics, she then again said she had a low pain tolerance.

    Is it fair of me to feel that just because of the risk of addiction and with so many previous surgeries having used opiates, that maybe it is not worth the risk and that she should endure a couple days of pain to avoid some possible long term negative outcome?  Does anyone have any previous experience, advice or perspective on how to deal with this situation?  Part of me thinks I shouldn't worry so much, but I'd hate to find out a year from now that I have a kid addicted to opiates after all of these surgeries because the medical professionals were reluctant to change their practices in light of the info?

    [Moderator Note] a similar question was asked last year. See "Norco prescription for wisdom teeth?" https://www.berkeleyparentsnetwork.org/advice/health/wisdomteeth

    I agree that this is a serious issue. My young adult daughter and I have both been offered narcotics for pain following medical procedures and we both have never accepted, opting for advil, pain, and rest instead. Since your daughter has already said she wants the Oxy, my advice is to try make sure she gets only enough for two days, and go with advil after that.

    It’s true that millions of people became addicted to opiates because of wildly inappropriate prescribing. However, I worry the baby’s in danger of being thrown out w the bath water these days! They are so effective against pain that I believe there is a place for them, with a limited number of pills and caution. I’ve taken opiates many times during my life and am thankful for them and never became addicted.

    I am appalled that in this day and age, "respected" oral surgeons remain so nonchalant about routinely prescribing opioids. Last year, my son (in his early 20s) had a slightly impacted wisdom tooth pulled.  Even though the procedure was a simple "pull out" extraction (not surgery; no actual cutting), there was no discussion about options for appropriate pain relief.  He was given their standard default Rx - antibiotics prophylactically for a few days, and narcotic pain relief.  I brought up the article(s) you mentioned, and asked about about possibly using alternating ibuprofen (Advil) and acetaminophen (Tylenol) instead, saving the narcotics RX unless absolutely needed, and was basically told we could "try that if we want."  No recognition of the evidence, no recognition of the risk of addition, (especially higher risk young men; he wasn't even asked about history), or anything.  Not even an awareness or recommended protocol for the analgesics. In the end, he took a  dose of each of the two non-narcotics once, took one more Advil at bedtime "just in case," and that was it.  The assumption that he would definitely NEED high-powered narcotics (which evidence actually is now showing are generally NOT better for this kind of pain) was, I thought, just completely unethical  I keep meaning to write them about it, but still haven't made myself do it.  Maybe after this, I will.  

    I have had some pretty major surgeries (oral and body) and after observing my sister become addicted to opioids (for many years in pill form but now combining with marijuana and sometimes mixing with alcohol - and also with antidepressants), I am afraid of any painkillers. My husband is a physician who basically makes a salary from prescribing them (don’t worry, he almost never prescribes them so his monthly pay makes it hard to afford rent); he’s extremely fearful of perpetuating a big problem in our country. In his words, “3-7 days of painkillers after a surgery...then start weaning.” And, “when you hit your deathbed, that’s a better time to hit the meds hard if you desire.” There’s a major distinction between the two but we often don’t see it. I’ve had six major surgeries and bad accident and have taken three days of Vicodin and I’m done. I was also encouraged by my husband to take the medications for proper pain management. The difference in my situation - he, a medical doctor, guided me every step of the way, and did so in a way he could never do with patients. There’s a fine line and we have haven’t been made aware of the nuances.

    I would say if/when this comes up with our kids, I am going to prep them (they’ve seen plenty of the destruction in SF with those taking to the streets as a result of their addiction or not managed mental health, many of whom take refuge in seeking out drugs as an understandable escape). We talk to our children  about how human beings get there (addiction is likely do to unresolved trauma and a longing for connection). Constant dopamine hits (technology, sugar, social media, alcohol, etc are the fuel for dopamine) are destructive and make it harder to deal with the root causes of our issues. We tell our kids we ALL have issues so they know we are all susceptible and not alone. Once their teenage brains reject this (our eldest is 11), we will tell them that drugs are so amazing (not bad) that they hijack your brain: “Do you want this to happen?” is what we will ask. Then, help them immediately get off of crutches, whether real crutches or other crutches given to us in life that are intended for situational help. That’s how we view painkillers -  for the use pain for a period of time. Not for a lifetime. I’m going out on a limb here and I will say that anyone who is on medications that work on the same receptors as opioids are going to have a harder time (meaning longer but not impossible at all) kicking the habit. Opioids are known to be amazing, which is why many can’t imagine living without them. There’s no sense in demonizing them. Like a car that has the ability to hurt someone, when used right, it can is from point A to point B, but we are always taking a risk behind the wheel & trusting other drivers. When we enable use of something as powerful as many kinds of drugs, we might be handing our loved ones and friends a lifetime of misery or even death. 

     I would say that this is a good time to be concerned but also understanding of your daughter (which you seem to be) and where she is. You are her guide and she will make decisions. I think our job as parents to provide our kids with the information we have. 

    Depending on how complicated the teeth extraction will be (for example are they impacted?), the pain may not be as bad as she fears, even with low pain tolerance.  My middle school age child had to have wisdom teeth removed.   Prescription acetaminophen was all we got, it seemed to work fine, and the pain went down within two days.   Has your daughter ever used high dose tylenol or advil? (dose as prescribed by doctor).  It may work much much better than she expects!

    I alternated tylenol and advil for a few days, and although it didn't take away all the pain, it was enough. 

  • Given the national opioid crisis, I was shocked that my 17 year old came home from the consult with the oral surgeon for his wisdom teeth removal with a prescription for 20 pills of Norco 5/325 (along with a prescription for ibuprofen 600 mg).  My RN sister says "Norco is hydrocodone and acetaminophen, hydrocodone is a lot stronger than codeine" - it's a Schedule II drug that has to be written on special prescription pads to deter copying/misuse.

    I had my wisdom teeth out later in life and took one dose of the stronger pain medicine then was fine with ibuprofen after that.  I asked around and other teens seem to have had the same experience lately - prescribed 20 norco pills, took 2 or 4 max.  Does this match your experience?

    I am not concerned about my teen misusing this opioid, but instead I'm concerned about it falling into the hands of others who may intentionally abuse it or inadvertently be harmed. I'm shocked the oral surgeon would prescribe so many more than are likely to be needed given the situation we're in with opioids and the potential for abuse in this age group.  I plan to call the office and voice my concern, but was curious to hear what others think, both about how many pills of norco are typical to need after wisdom teeth removal, and about the risks of over prescribing.

    My pediatrician sister and my RN sister both suggest not filling the norco and just going with ibuprofen, holding the norco "just in case"  - which is exactly the opposite of what the surgeon instructed ("fill it before you come to the procedure").  The other option I'm considering is having the pharmacist just fill it for 2 or maybe 4 pills, so there are less lying around after.  Even aside from abuse, it's a pain to dispose of schedule II drugs properly.  You would think oral surgeons would be helping us out here by not over prescribing, right? Apparently not...

    The surgeon prescribes the Norco because some patients really do need it.  It’s almost impossible to know in advance who will need Norco and who will be fine with ibuprofen only.   My husband didn’t need anything stronger than ibuprofen when he had his wisdom teeth removed, but I needed the whole prescription.  My son needed all of his Codein after having his adenoids removed.

    The WHO considers pain relief to be a human right.   If a doctor doesn’t prescribe effective pain management, they can be successfully sued.  My pediatrician told me a case about a Marin oncologist that was successfully sued by the family members of a patient that was in extreme pain even though the patient was receiving the maximum amount of pain relievers due to tightened criteria to prevent abuse (but still well below max doses of the medication that would cause respiratory failure).  Mandating maximum dosages of pain medication puts doctors in a very difficult position, as it means that they can’t treat individuals with varying levels of pain effectively.  Providing adequate pain relief is a main tenet of medicine.

    The advice from your family members in the medical profession is curious.  If one waits to take analgesics or pain meds until the pain gets bad, then it takes a lot more pain medication to get the pain under control.  The medical community regularly advises not to wait until pain becomes severe to take pain medication.  Pain is easier to control when it is mild.  This is why a doctor will provide a pain medication script before surgery, as it will allow a patient to have access to pain medication quickly if it is needed.  

    It is your choice whether to fill the prescription in advance or whether to fill it for a lower amount of pills.  Your medical professional family members probably don’t have any issue filling prescriptions quickly, and wouldn’t see a downside to filling the prescription at a moment’s notice.  Personally, I have had to wait 2-3 days to get schedule 2 drugs filled for my son because the drugstores don’t keep a lot of the medications on hand in the store and have to order the pills from a distribution center.  I fill prescriptions in advance now, because of the potential for delays.

    If you are concerned about how to dispose of unused Narco, then call the surgeon to see if they will dispose of the unused pills or talk to the pharmacy.

    Calling the surgeon to complain about the prescription for pain medication is completely inappropriate.  Take care of your own business, and don’t try to tell others what they do or don’t need.  You have no idea of what other people need.

    Hi, there. My then 16 year old had her wisdom teeth (all 4, impacted, and really wedged in there) extracted last Spring. They prescribed Norco for her: 24 tablets. Having had two of my own wisdom teeth (fully emerged, and worn out) extracted as an adult, with no need of any drugs, I was expecting her to have a similar experience. I filled the prescription just in case. Here was our experience: she was in real pain for most of the week. She requested, and I gave her, the Norco. Your query caused me to go and count the remaining pills which I have stashed in a safe spot; she used 14 out of the 24. It turns out there's a reason why they prescribe it; that my experience was completely different from hers. I recommend that you fill the prescription, administer the pills yourself, writing down the times you've given them, and think about a very safe stash place for any leftovers. You could also request a smaller amount, but I'd say ask for at least a dozen.

    Our daughter, also 17, had all 4 of her wisdom teeth taken out in a single surgery.  She was only prescribed iboprophen (600mg) -- no Norco.  She was in a lot of pain, even though she is very tough.  We called the doctor's office over the weekend she was in so much pain.  By the way, days 3 and 4 are often the worse for pain (not days 1 and 2) for wisdom teeth removal, which we found out on that weekend phone call.  If they had prescribed Norco pills, they would have been helpful on days 3 and 4.  Daughter was in pain for almost a week.  

    For other folks wisdom teeth removal has been more routine (including me), so the need for pain killers took my by surprise.  But having all 4 done at once and the way the teeth were variously positioned made it a significantly worse.  I can see a surgeon going either way with the Norco.

    Ordering a few Norco pills as an option, and controlling their storage and use as a parent, seems fine to us.  In fact, my partner has a stronger Norco precription (7/325) for chronic pain and uses it a few times a month as needed for severe pain -- for years now.  No increase in use, no addictive behaviors.  Taking Norco pills 1-2x after a surgical procedure isn't going to cause an addiction or a dealer to blossom.  (Don't get me started on oxycotin though...)

    He'll be ok whatever you decide, and good luck to both of you!

    I have been prescribed opioids after the five or six surgeries I've had, and seldom use more than a couple of pills. I had many old bottles in the bathroom, dating back to the C-section births of my kids. My kids are teenagers now, and my son may be getting his wisdom teeth removed soon. I recently got rid of my old pills because someone with experience in the field of addiction gave me this information. He said that teens who come over as visitors to your home may look through the medicine cabinet and help themselves. Your idea of getting the prescription filled for a smaller number of pills sounds great. 

    I know of two teenagers who have died as a result of prescriptions stored in the home medicine cabinet. One used his own leftover pain meds from wisdom tooth removal to commit suicide. The other one experimented with his parents meds and overdosed. Those pain medications are dangerous. Lock them up. Or take them to a disposal center. Do not flush, it harms the bay. 

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    Berkeley

    Berkeley Transfer Station
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    UC Berkeley Tang Center Pharmacy
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    United Pharmacy
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