Never lend your car to anyone to whom you have given birth. - Erma Bombeck I want to have children, but my friends scare me. One of my friends told me she was in labor for 36 hours. I don't even want to do anything that feels GOOD for 36 hours. - Rita Rudner I have found the best way to give advice to your children is to find out what they want and then advise them to do it. --Harry S. Truman Love your children with all your hearts, love them enough to discipline them before it is too late ... Praise them for important things, even if you have to stretch them a bit. Praise them a lot. They live on it like bread and butter and they need it more than bread and butter. --Lavina Christensen Fugal If you must hold yourself up to your children as an object lesson ... hold yourself up as an example and not as a warning. --George Bernard Shaw The commonest fallacy among women (and men -- in my humble opinion) is that simply having children makes them a mother (a father) -- which is as absurd as believing that having a piano makes one a musician. --Sydney J. Harris Perhaps host and guest is really the happiest relation for father and son. --Evelyn Waugh Could I climb to the highest place in Athens, I would lift my voice and proclaim, "Fellow citizens, why do you turn and scrape every stone to gather wealth and take so little care of your children to whom one day you must relinquish it all." --Socrates There are three degrees of filial piety. The highest is being a credit to our parents, the second is not disgracing them; the lowest is being able simply to support them. --Confucius The family is one of nature's masterpieces. --George Santayana We never know the love of our parents for us till we have become parents. --Henry Ward Beecher Love is an act of endless forgiveness, a tender look which becomes a habit. --Peter Ustinov The giving of gifts in such a way that no credit will devolve upon ourselves is sufficiently at odds with our routine behavior as to be accounted a mystery, and we may as well give that mystery a name. Santa Claus it is. -- Cecil Adams, syndicated columnist of the "The Straight Dope", answering the question "Is there a Santa Claus?" 26-Dec-97 (http://www.straightdope.com/)