How to Find a Date Night or Occasional Babysitter

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  • Hi!  We recently moved to the area, and don't have any family here.  My husband and I have never had anyone look after our toddler before, but are at the point where we are ready to try a baby-sitter for the occasional date night/night out with friends.  I have no idea what the hourly rate should be for this area and was wondering what others pay per hour for evening babysitting?  We live in the Alameda area.


    Thanks so much!

    I think it depends on whether you’re looking for an experienced nanny who also does occasionally babysitting or a less experienced high school/college student. In my experience, more experienced folks charge $30-$35/hour for 1-2 children. I’ve seen rates around $20/hour for less experienced sitters.

    Ours charges $25/hr for babysitting. She's a nanny during the day to another family so this is supplemental income for her. We're in Berkeley for reference. 

    $25-30 per hour is the most common range I've seen for watching one child (in Berkeley). Some college students I interviewed with asked for $20 an hour. Some experienced sitters and nannies have asked for over $30 per hour... 

    Hello! We have a person in her mid-twenties, not a childcare worker professionally, but she likes to make some extra money on the weekends. We give her $25/hour. On urbansitter I have experienced similar rates for adults that do not work in childcare. I have seen some college students charging a few dollars less per hour on urbansitter, and childcare professionals charging a few dollars more per hour (close to $30/hour). I would suspect that a responsible, high-school kid in your neighborhood would be a good, less-expensive option, consider putting out a question on Nextdoor or to your neighbors in-person!

    Our babysitter charges us $30/hr plus we usually give her a tip. Hope you find someone and can a much-deserved date night!

  • Does anyone have some good East Bay resources (for reference, I'm in El Cerrito) to post jobs or find occasional babysitters? I have been using Sittercity.com, but finding that most of that site is geared toward identifying career nannies. I need to find regular, after work childcare for a couple hours, a couple days a week.. are there message boards for local community colleges or the universities that anyone has found successful? Other sites? Or is it all word-of-mouth and friends-of-friends? TIA for any ideas.

    [Moderator note] The listing "Nannies & Sitters available" on BPN's website contains posts from babysitters currently offering care - BPN has more than 350 nanny subscribers and 200 college students who subscribe. Parents can also post a message to the listing to look for childcare.

    I've used the app urban sitter to do occasional date night babysitting. It does have a fee, I can't remember how much. Now that I've found a great sitter of the app, we just use her each time since shes typically available. 

    Care.com and UrbanSitter are similar. I haven't been on them in a while but I think they typically skew toward folks looking for occasional babysitting (vs. career gigs). I wonder if the balance has tipped over the past year due to COVID (former career nannies lost their jobs when parents went remote and went on those sites to look for new ones; occasional babysitters dropped off because fewer people were hiring for that). Hopefully it swings back in the coming months! 

    I would also suggest posting your specific needs (hours, days) to both BPN and to the Bananas childcare forum if you haven't already. 

    Hi! I got a great list from the Kensington Community center, all had been counselors at summer camps in years past. So far every sitter on the list has been great.